How would you feel if a guy locked eyes and winked at you in public?

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It's such a stereotype flirty move. I've done this to a couple guys I've liked on the street or the public transport but 99% of the time I chicken out and can't get to do it even though I want to.

In my case most guys don't react, probably stunned by my courage or questioning if they really saw me wink. The few times that they reacted has been a shy smile and continue walking.

One time it actually led to sex with the guy I winked to. We were on holiday. He was sitting at a bar with his boyfriend. I walked passed, winked at the one I liked, 10 min later went back to sit down with them. Exchanged numbers. Next day he was fucking me šŸ˜… That's my hottest story and outcome with this and frankly I love bragging about it because I'm not that type of person and this was really out of character for me.

Locking eyes and winking sounds so cinematic and subtle and that's probably what excites me about it. No apps or modern ways. Such a vanilla move, but takes balls.

What's your experience, has anyone done it to you, have you done it, how did/would it make you feel?
 
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eridim said:
It's such a stereotype flirty move. I've done this to a couple guys I've liked on the street or the public transport but 99% of the time I chicken out and can't get to do it even though I want to.

In my case most guys don't react, probably stunned by my courage or questioning if they really saw me wink. The few times that they reacted has been a shy smile and continue walking.

One time it actually led to sex with the guy I winked to. We were on holiday. He was sitting at a bar with his boyfriend. I walked passed, winked at the one I liked, 10 min later went back to sit down with them. Exchanged numbers. Next day he was fucking me šŸ˜… That's my hottest story and outcome with this and frankly I love bragging about it because I'm not that type of person and this was really out of character for me.

Locking eyes and winking sounds so cinematic and subtle and that's probably what excites me about it. No apps or modern ways. Such a vanilla move, but takes balls.

What's your experience, has anyone done it to you, have you done it, how did/would it make you feel?
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Never had this happen yet but I donā€™t know how Iā€™d feel.
I wouldnā€™t be offended, just having never done this or encountered it, Iā€™m just not sure.
Flattered perhaps but definitely not offended at all.
As for myself doing itā€¦well itā€™s a bit kinky isnā€™t it. I would perhaps consider it but not sure Iā€™d dare.
Isnā€™t it sexual harassment šŸ˜† I just wouldnā€™t want to get in that kind trouble thatā€™s all.
 
I had it happen years ago and felt right away I knew he was gay. Now, 15 years later I'm chatting with him online. He showed me a picture of himself recently. He doesn't know I know who he is and that he's the same guy that winked at me years ago. Hot.
 
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It's look-away-eye-roll-time if I'm not interested. :rolleyes:

I smile and wink back if I like the look of him, hitting the ball back in his court to see how he responds. He's going to have to approach me if he wants it to go further though there was one guy who kept smiling at me after we exchanged winks. When I got off at his stop he took me to his place and we did it. Cute little fuck.
 
a guy did this to me once but it really wasnā€™t the right setting for it and i didnā€™t want to ruin a friendship. I really need to try this out sometime soon though, iā€™m bad at flirting and this might be the lowest risk way to try and do it lol
 
It's never happened to me (maybe my straightness is obvious to gay men?) If it did happen I'd be flattered, but that's it, as nothing is going to happen. I've never been approached or been hit on by a guy (and very rarely even women!)
 
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Yeah I'd never expect a woman to do this to a guy. We and history have turned women into passive subjects, so they have to be approached. I hate that tbh, but my ranting online won't solve it.

I just did it to another guy yesterday and he smiled and looked back at me shyingly, clearly loving my audacity. Funnily it was also a nice ego boost for me haha
 
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Ignore him and pity his bad social reading.
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Itā€™s not bad social reading

If someone winks smiles and acts interest in you as he thinks youā€™re sexy then donā€™t get mad about it.. feel flattered he winked at you .. you can always tell him not interested if he comes up to you.. just tell him youā€™re flattered but not interested .. or tell him cool.. while inside your mind you are thinking he is sexy as well
 
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chrissal480 said:
Itā€™s not bad social reading

If someone winks smiles and acts interest in you as he thinks youā€™re sexy then donā€™t get mad about it.. feel flattered he winked at you .. you can always tell him not interested if he comes up to you.. just tell him youā€™re flattered but not interested .. or tell him cool.. while inside your mind you are thinking he is sexy as well
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Cos not every scenario has to be sexualised. For one, I just go about my business and don't bother us, and in kind don't expect to be bothered. Not every situation must have a sexual element to it, and it's intrusive on their part.
 
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Cos not every scenario has to be sexualised. For one, I just go about my business and don't bother us, and in kind don't expect to be bothered. Not every situation must have a sexual element to it, and it's intrusive on their part.
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So you NEVER EVER approach anyone you may be interested in? If so, is that not intrusive? Why do you not leave them alone and mind your own business and let them go along with theirs
 
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eridim said:
It's such a stereotype flirty move. I've done this to a couple guys I've liked on the street or the public transport but 99% of the time I chicken out and can't get to do it even though I want to.

In my case most guys don't react, probably stunned by my courage or questioning if they really saw me wink. The few times that they reacted has been a shy smile and continue walking.

One time it actually led to sex with the guy I winked to. We were on holiday. He was sitting at a bar with his boyfriend. I walked passed, winked at the one I liked, 10 min later went back to sit down with them. Exchanged numbers. Next day he was fucking me šŸ˜… That's my hottest story and outcome with this and frankly I love bragging about it because I'm not that type of person and this was really out of character for me.

Locking eyes and winking sounds so cinematic and subtle and that's probably what excites me about it. No apps or modern ways. Such a vanilla move, but takes balls.

What's your experience, has anyone done it to you, have you done it, how did/would it make you feel?
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